I am obsessed with rhythm. I have found that the better that I understand my rhythm, the more effective I can be in the key areas of my life. Those areas of focus for me have remained the same for a long time now–faith, family, fitness and finances.

In all of our rhythms we are naturally drawn to focus on these areas more intently toward the end or at the start of a New Year.

Focusing on family during an extended holiday time seems to make sense when we consider the natural rhythms of our life. In considering family I want to evaluate and make adjustments. Here is where I start.

Adjust your pace. Slow down rather than speed up. Avoid the pull to make yourself unusually busy during this season. Start each day with meditation and intentionally slow down where you can think clearly about your family. What has stood out to you this last year? What will the family likely look like this time next year?

Adjust your perspective. Step outside of a ministry mindset and take a look at your own family. Where do you need to spend time? Address some neglected areas in extended family. There are eleven months where you are deepening relationships with others. Take this time to make sure you are doing the same in your family.

Adjust your plans. Yes, make some plans. Dream a bit. Talk to your spouse or significant others in your family. Set aside some time now for intimate family time throughout the year. Get some things on the calendar and make this your best year yet for your family!